Your dating patterns, in writing.

A real personality and attachment assessment, with a short written breakdown of what it actually means for how you date. No session, no scheduling — just answers.

What it covers

Personality

How you're wired

Where you land on the five core traits researchers use to describe how people think, feel, and relate.

Attachment

How you handle closeness

Whether you lean toward needing reassurance, needing space, or something steadier in relationships.

How it works

Complete your assessment

A few minutes online, at your own pace.

Get your written snapshot

A short, personalized breakdown of what your results mean for your dating life — reviewed and finalized by Nick before it reaches you, not sent unfiltered.

What this is, and isn't: This is a quick, honest read on your patterns — not therapy, not a diagnosis, and not the same depth as a full session. Every write-up is reviewed personally by Nick before it's sent. If something in yours feels bigger than a dating pattern, that'll be said plainly, with a suggestion to talk to a therapist or someone you trust rather than carry it alone.

The Snapshot

$50

Assessment + written breakdown, delivered within a few days

Want to actually talk it through?

The Snapshot tells you what your patterns are. The full session is where you work through what to actually do about them, with Nick, in a real conversation.

See the full Know Your Pattern session