A New Way to Understand Your Dating Life
Know Your Pattern.
Most dating advice guesses. This starts with a real assessment — the same caliber of instruments used in clinical and coaching practice — and ends with someone actually sitting down with you to explain what it means.
What it measures
Three validated dimensions of how you actually show up in relationships — not a personality quiz you forget by tomorrow.
How you're wired
Where you land on the five core personality dimensions researchers use to describe how people think, feel, and relate — and what that tends to mean for the kind of partner and pace that actually works for you.
How you handle closeness
Whether you lean toward needing reassurance, needing space, or something steadier — and where that pattern is likely showing up in your dating life right now, often without you noticing it.
How you treat yourself when dating gets hard
Whether a bad date or a slow stretch makes you spiral or makes you shrug it off — and how that affects your ability to keep showing up.
Instruments administered securely; results are never shared without your consent.
How it works
Complete your assessment
Done on your own time, online, at your own pace. No interpretation happens here — just honest answers.
Sit down with Nick
A guided session where your results get translated into plain language — what your patterns are, where they help you, and where they're quietly working against you in dating specifically.
Leave with something to actually do
Not just a label. Specific, practical adjustments for how you date — and if you choose to continue working together, a clear starting point for it.
This isn't a BuzzFeed quiz.
Apps and influencers will tell you your "attachment style" based on ten questions and a TikTok sound. What you're getting here is the same category of assessment used in clinical and coaching practice, walked through by a person — not an algorithm — who's spent years watching how these patterns actually play out on real dates with real people.