Your Goals

We talked about what you're looking for, now let's get concrete:

Your Name

Your Email

In 12 months, if matchmaking has been successful, what does your life look like?

What are your 3 absolute must-haves in a partner? (the things you won't compromise on)

What are your 3 absolute dealbreakers? (the things that end it immediately)

What's something you're worried about that you might not have mentioned on our call?

Dating Readiness Check

Honest self-assessment:

On a scale of 1-10, how emotionally ready are you to date right now?

5

Not ready at all Completely ready

What would make that number higher?

What's your biggest concern about getting back out there?

How much time can you realistically commit to dating each week? (Be honest - I'd rather know now)

How Matchmaking Actually Works

Setting realistic expectations:

Here's what to expect:

Timeline: First match within 2-4 weeks. Finding the right person? That's different for everyone - could be match #3, could be match #15. There's no average because people aren't averages.
Quality over quantity: You'll get fewer matches than apps, but every single one will be vetted and intentional
Chemistry isn't guaranteed: I can't make sparks fly, but I can eliminate 90% of the time-wasters
Your job: Show up, be open-minded, give honest feedback after dates, stay committed to the process
My job: Find compatible people, prep you, troubleshoot, keep you accountable, adjust strategy based on what we learn

Are you open to using dating apps or attending dating events in conjunction with matchmaking?

What questions do you have about how this works?

What's your biggest concern about whether this will work?

How We'll Work Together

Choose your collaboration style:

What's your preferred working style?

Hands-off

Send me matches, I'll take it from there. Minimal check-ins unless I need something.

Guided

Walk me through your thinking on matches. Regular check-ins. I want to understand your process.

Full Partnership

I want to help identify people in my network, give detailed feedback, be actively involved in strategy.

After a date, how quickly do you want to debrief?

Same night

Next day

Give me a few days to process

Preferred communication method:

Text Email Phone calls

How often do you want general check-ins?

Weekly

Bi-weekly

Monthly

As needed

Do you want date prep/coaching before first dates?

Yes - I want the coaching

Sometimes - depends on the situation

No - I've got this

If you've been seeing someone for a few dates and realize it's not going to work, how comfortable are you having that conversation?

Totally comfortable

I can handle it, just need to know what to say

A little nervous

I'd appreciate guidance on how to approach it

Really uncomfortable

I'll need coaching and maybe a script

Final Thoughts

Last chance to add anything:

Is there anything from our call you've been thinking about that you want to add?

On a scale of 1-10, how confident are you that we can find what you're looking for?

5

Not confident Very confident

What would make that number a 10?

You're All Set!

Thanks for taking the time to complete this. I'll review your responses and start building your match list. If anything raises questions, I'll reach out before sending your first match.

Talk soon,
Nick

Client Onboarding