Conflict Management
Styles Assessment
Based on the Thomas-Kilmann Model · Adapted by Reginald Adkins, Ph.D., Elemental Truths
Rate each of the 15 statements below from 1 (Rarely) to 5 (Always) based on how well each describes you in conflict situations. Answer honestly — there are no right or wrong responses. Your results will be sent directly to your matchmaker at Met By Nick.
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Every style has value.
Context determines which to use.
Competing
The Assertive DriverAssertive and goal-driven. Values being right. Most effective when decisive action is required or certainty is high.
Collaborating
The Partnership BuilderAssertive and cooperative. Sees conflict as opportunity to strengthen relationships. Requires high mutual trust.
Avoiding
The Thoughtful PauserSteps back to gain clarity. Effective for trivial matters or when more time is needed before responding.
Accommodating
The Harmony KeeperPuts others first. Values relationships over personal goals. Preserves harmony but rarely leaves fully satisfied.
Compromising
The Pragmatic NegotiatorFinds the middle ground. Both sides give a little, gain a little. A reliable fallback when collaboration is not possible.